As a busy and (hopefully) healthy adult, you’re probably not worried about your estate plan. There are more pressing concerns—such as tuition bills, orthodontic fees, and rising grocery prices, among others.
When your plate is full of real, immediate concerns, the idea of meeting with a lawyer to talk about what happens after you die understandably takes a backseat.

You’re prioritizing based on what’s probable. This is reasonable given annual probabilities like these:
- 1 in 20 chance you’ll need major dental work or be in a police-reported car accident,
- 1 in 4 chance you’ll experience significant data loss or a cybersecurity breach,
- 1 in 25 chance of an unexpected hospitalization.
These are common, disruptive, and expensive events. They demand immediate attention and resources. Compared to these, the annual probability of a catastrophic event like permanent incapacitation (around 1 in 150) or death (1 in 222) might seem negligible.
In other words, you are probably not going to “need” an estate plan this year. Getting a last will written is not your biggest “fish to fry.”
Meet the Catastrophic Consequence
There’s no denying that you have more pressing concerns, yet few events are more catastrophic to your family than your death or permanent incapacity. Although unlikely to happen, the consequences for you and your loved ones, should they occur, would be genuinely catastrophic. Ask yourself a few questions:
- What if you’re alive but unable to make financial or medical decisions? Without powers of attorney, your family faces expensive and emotionally draining legal action to pay your bills or make medical choices on your behalf.
- If both you and your spouse pass away in a common accident (think traffic accident), who raises your children in the way you prefer? And who manages the financial legacy you’ve built for them, ensuring they use their inheritance wisely instead of wasting it when they turn 18, harming themselves in the process?
Death and incapacity are family-altering crises. Yes, life insurance policies and other financial resources help, but they do not address all the critical issues.
The Win-Win Solution
You need a different approach, one that respects both your need to allocate finite resources carefully and to avoid unnecessary exposure to the catastrophic consequences of death and incapacity.
The win-win solution is to find legal help that isn’t time-consuming, expensive, or unnecessarily complex. If all these boxes are checked, you can “have your cake and eat it, too.”

This isn’t impossible. Forward-looking law firms (and I don’t mean hands-off nationwide document mills) have streamlined the planning process to make it more efficient and affordable than ever before. How can you find law firms like this? Naturally, you need to know what to look for.
Key aspects of a modern approach include:
- Value: For those new to planning, this may mean a rigorous yet simple plan that includes a last will to name guardians and powers of attorney for incapacity. It’s a modest investment and great value—the cost of mid-range tires on your car, except that it comes with a durable ease of mind.
- Efficiency: The most efficient firms that offer quality services won’t make you spend hours in transit. Much of the planning process, from initial information gathering to reviewing drafts, can now be handled virtually, making it compatible with a busy schedule.
- Expert Guidance: Here, the key is to balance the risk of buying generic, one-size-fits-all forms against spending heftily for specialized services designed to handle rare, complex situations (which yours probably is not). An experienced, tech-savvy attorney well-versed in Wisconsin law can spot the difference and provide personalized documents that account for the nuances of Wisconsin law without asking you to accept overly complex planning.
The takeaway is simple: In uncertain times, taking small, high-impact steps to protect your family is a smart choice. It’s the best way to avoid the dire consequences of passing away or becoming incapacitated unexpectedly, allowing you to stay focused on your everyday challenges.
Don’t leave your family’s security to chance. Reach out to Cain Estate Law today for your complimentary consultation. Take the first step toward protecting your loved ones and securing your peace of mind. Contact Attorney Tyson Cain to discuss your needs and learn how easily you can put the right plan in place.
- Book a Zoom consultation (evenings and weekends are fine!)
- Send e-mail to Tyson@CainEstateLaw.com
- Call 715-301-0055

Disclaimer: This post is for educational purposes only and does not create an attorney-client relationship. Always consult a qualified estate planning attorney about your specific situation.

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